Is it okay for a spouse to sleep on different beds? Don’t think anything like that on Taxotok.
After the disclosure of influenian Matt Howard, the social media platform broke out in a debate when he was sleeping in a walk in the walk -cluset, separate from his wife Abe for his “mental health”. The couple, who were loved by high school and suffered from their love story and online documentation of family life, have collected 5.3 million followers on them. Joint Tactic Account.
Matt said, “The decision I made was something I had to do to give priority to my mental health, because I was not right.” A video that has 2.8 million opinions. “I was really struggling. I was feeling terrible, and that’s why I’m here.”
Teltok users have posted their reaction, making many speculations must be deeper. “I am sorry, but if my husband told me that he could not sleep with me on the same bed and went to sleep in the cell because of his mental health, then divorce is increasing.” A video that has 2.4 million opinions.
Certainly if a couple do not sleep on the same bed, it should mean that their relationship is at risk. OK?
Not necessarily.
Many couples choose not to sleep on the same bed. Why is it here
Matts and Abbie Howard have long been the subject of online checking. It can be expected – they are public figures after all.
They are also away from the only public figures to sleep on different beds. Cameron Diaz and First Lady Melania TrumpFor example, both have said that they sleep on their spouses separately. Some celebrities have gone ahead, revealing that they have never been able to grow with their spouse. Gwenth Pelterro has shared herself and her husband Brad Falchuk in various homes, and the “Abbott Elementary” star. Sheryl Lee Ralph He has said that he and her husband Vincent Hughes live in different states. (She’s in Los Angeles, while she’s in Philadelphia.)
Often called “sleep divorce”, it looks like a red flag of a relationship before going to bed separately. However, a marital bed is not more than just a place where couples sleep and have sex. It is also a sign of a timely honor of their alliance.
Experts, however, earlier, the USA Today was told that there are many reasonable reasons for “sleep divorce” that do not necessarily mean that the couple’s marriage is at risk. Some common causes include scratching, anxiety, parasomeia, repeated travel or sleep -based schedules in the bathroom.
This is also a process that is common: the 2012 survey of the Better Sleep Council and the 2017 survey of the National Sleep Foundation showed 1 of the two pairs of sleep on separate beds. But “Dr. Mir Craigger,” Professor Emeritus of Medicine at Yale’s School of Medicine and “Sleep Pharmaceutical Rules and Practice,” Dr. Mir Curigar, “is still a shame for some people. “Today
Craiger said that no couple should feel ashamed of the process: “For many couples, seaparing of their relationships can be the best thing to be separated.”
He also said that “there is no research that shows that couples who are separated for the purpose of better sleep do not have a romance compared to the couples who share the bed.”
When gold on different beds becomes a problem
Of course, sometimes sleeping is a problem with spelling.
Rand Corporation, a senior behavior scientist Wendy Troksal and “Koran the Koraning the Cores: guidance for each couple’s better sleep, Wendy Troksal,” have some couples to decide to be separated. Is a symbol. “” Had previously told USA Today.
It can also bother the children of a couple, who can see their parents’ separate sleep as a sign of divorce. Craiger said he had met families where children felt embarrassing, unsafe or worried about their parents’ sleep arrangements.
“Some children have even wondered if their parents’ gold decision means that they are no longer in love,” he told USA Today first.
Parents to prevent this, parents should have honest conversations with their children as to why they are sleeping separately and ensure their love for each other in other ways.
“Children who hold their parents regularly, praise each other, or smuggle each other on the sofa, will find any insecurity that they have felt,” Curigger said. “
It is also important for the couple to know that, if they do not want to sleep separately, there are ways to overcome sleeplessness issues, even challenging.
“In practice, every sleep problem is solved,” he said. “Many reforms are very easy. Other times, the couple should get professional help.”
Contributions: Daryl Aston
